Help! I’m New to the Scene! It’s My First Sex Party!
Sex parties have been on your mind a lot lately. Perhaps, you want to add more details to the picture you have in your mind. Maybe your friend wouldn’t stop blabbing right down to the intimate details about all the fun she had at one. Perhaps you’ve fantasized about how a threesome with your partner would play out, or you just want a casual fling outside your relationship.
There are different reasons why people want to attend a sex party. You want your first experience to be a memorable one, with classy like-minded individuals in a secure setting.
Rope & Candy is a free circle of open-minded friends where you can explore your most intimate desires at your own pace. We celebrate your sexuality with you.
This could be your first sex party of many to come. You’re nervous about your decision but you want to do it. Let’s talk about the concerns you might have at the start.
I am nervous about meeting new people
You don’t walk into a room full of strangers on day one. When you join, you tell us where you live and where you often travel. When one of the founders or a Rope & Candy representative is in your town, we get in touch and meet you somewhere easy: a coffee, a drink, a dinner. Nothing more is expected.
From there, you meet other members, and friends invite friends. Sometimes the first invitation is to a small party among people you have already met.
You don’t need to look like a model, either. There is no looks test. Being sexy is a total package, from your personality to your general outlook on life. You can’t be beautiful if you’re not happy, can you?
Thinking of being the only newcomer makes me nervous
You’ve probably attended many parties and had fun at almost all of them. However, this is your first adult themed party, so it’s understandable if you’re a little nervous. Relax! Lots of our members were first-timers not so long ago. You will blend in without breaking much sweat. Just go in, have an open mind and talk to the people around you. They are real people just like you with no major expectations of you.
The nights in our circle are not the typical loud and rowdy parties you’ve probably heard of. Let’s just say it’s a sex party with a classy twist to it. Consider it a playground you share with like-minded individuals who are celebrating their sexuality as a beautiful part of them. A playground with no judgment.
Am I safe from STDs?
Condoms belong at every good night, and we encourage every guest to use one. Most of our members are health-conscious couples in loving relationships, and we encourage regular testing for everyone.
Studies show that people in non-monogamous relationships are more particular about safe sex than those in monogamous relationships.
For practical purposes, it’s always good practice for men to switch condoms every time they switch partners when engaging in non-monogamous sexual relationships.
If you’re a woman it’s your responsibility to make sure you’re comfortable with everything that happens to you. Your body… your rules!
What does it cost?
Nothing. Rope & Candy is free to join, free to meet and free to stay in. If you read Our Mission, you know this was never about the money for us.
Ready? Join for free, and bring your sensual fantasies to life among friends.