I Want to Join Rope & Candy, but I Am Worried About Sending Photos
Welcome, and congratulations for choosing to be open about your sexuality.
Your journey will be full of fun, excitement and self-discovery. Your next step is to join the community. It is free.
The one thing that may be holding you back is the photos. You could have an important job, be a well-known face, or simply want to keep a low profile. That is normal, and many of our members feel the same way. Here are straight answers.
Why do you ask for photos?
Because we meet people in person. When one of the founders or a Rope & Candy representative comes to your town for a coffee or a dinner, we need to know who we are looking for. A few recent photos where your face is clear are enough, and both of you if you are a couple.
Do I need to send nude or sexy photos?
No. Nude photos are not required. Everyday photos are perfectly fine. Send whatever you are comfortable with.
Who sees them?
The Rope & Candy founders, and the representatives who meet members in your area. Nobody else in the community, and nothing is ever published on this site.
Do I have to use my real name?
No. An alias is enough, and you can keep it for as long as you are with us.
How do you contact me?
By email, and on the messenger you give us. Telegram or Signal is best, WhatsApp is fine.
What else keeps members safe?
Small nights among friends who have met before, and a firm no phones, no cameras rule. Read 9 reasons a private party belongs on your bucket list for how the nights in our circle work.
Ready? Join for free: email us your alias, your photos and the places you spend your time. We will say hello when we are near.