Do I Have to Look a Certain Way to Join Rope & Candy?
It is the question we hear most, so here is the short answer: no. There is no looks test at Rope & Candy. No body type, no size, no checklist of features.
We ask for a few recent photos for one simple reason: so we know who we are meeting when we sit down with you for a coffee or a dinner. Nude photos are not required.
What we actually care about
The people who make a night among friends feel good are rarely the ones who look like a magazine cover. They are the ones who are:
- Kind. They make first-timers feel welcome.
- Curious. They are open about what they like and interested in what others like.
- Respectful. No means no, maybe means no, and nobody needs to explain a no.
- Discreet. What happens among friends stays among friends.
- Clean and comfortable in their skin. Whatever that skin looks like.
Confidence is the dress code
Dress the way that makes you feel good. Some members love to dress up, some don't. Feeling at ease in your own body does more for a night than any particular body.
So should I join?
If you are curious, open-minded and respectful, yes. Joining is free. Tell us where you spend your time, and we will say hello when one of us is near.