Open sexuality supports the idea that sex in all consenting forms is neither wrong nor immoral. People should be free to have sex in whatever way they choose, as long as they are not forced to do it. To have an open sexuality is to have a positive attitude towards sex and be comfortable with your sexuality.

The idea that the only morally acceptable context of sex is within a heterosexual and monogamous relationship is wrong. This belief has created unhappy people who are afraid to express their sexuality… which is a natural part of them!

The concept of positivity and openness around sex goes beyond just sexual activities. People who are open about their sexuality have an open-minded approach to sex and are accepting of the sexual behavior or choices of others. Sometimes, they might not agree with those choices, but they are respectful of them.

The open sexuality movement aims to drum home a simple message: there’s no ‘correct’ way to have sex. The judging needs to stop.

Rope & Candy seeks to create a safe environment where like-minded individuals can engage with this idea.

Rope & Candy holds that a keen interest in sex doesn’t make you any less worthy as a person. The generally sex-negative public has made many people hide some of their most intimate fantasies. This comes from a place of fear of judgment. A place where people prefer to bottle up their feelings rather than being open about them. We all have those kinky desires we wish for to play out in real life. Out of fear of being judged, we rarely never share these desires with anybody. It takes a huge show of trust to share these intimate fantasies.

Rope & Candy parties provide the space where guests can finally let their defenses down and speak openly with each other.

A study by the Boise State University shows 60% of heterosexual women are attracted to other women. The environment created at Rope & Candy events allows curious couples and single girls to explore their bi-curious sides and not feel ashamed of it. It’s terrible to judge others, particularly for their sexual preferences. This doesn’t happen at our parties.

While men suffer the stigma too, women mostly bear the brunt of moral judgments from sex-negative people. The truth is nobody has the right to pass judgment on people exploring their sexuality. Yet, some people still hold this discriminatory attitude towards sex.

Rope & Candy parties aim to help change these sentiments and encourage people to adopt more accepting attitudes toward sex.

Although open sexuality is gradually becoming more acceptable, talking openly about sex is still considered shocking in many quarters. The message of open sexuality is not just about the how kinky your sex is. It’s about feeling comfortable with what sexual acts make you happy and not judging the sexual preferences of others.

Although open sexuality is gradually becoming more and more acceptable, talking openly about sex is still considered shocking in many quarters. The message of open sexuality is not just about the how kinky your sex is. Instead, it is about feeling comfortable about what sexual acts make you happy and not judging the sexual preferences of others.