Sex Parties: The Secret to Getting Over Breakups
Breakups can be hard to take. Especially when your relationship held so much promise… or so you thought.
Anger, frustration, and pain are valid emotions to have at the start. But, it becomes unhealthy when you let the breakup control your life.
Trying to get back at your ex isn’t going to help.
On the upside, a breakup is your second chance to right the wrongs… this time, knowing better.
Academics Dr. Claudia Brumbaugh and Prof. R. C. Fraley suggest you move on. Their 2015 study on moving on reveals, “Among those in new relationships, the speed with which they began their relationship was associated with greater psychological and relational health. Overall, these findings suggest that rebound relationships may be more beneficial than typically believed”.
It looks like bitter pills may have useful side effects.
Getting your pent-up emotions off your mind with good sex can help. It can lift your self-esteem and make you feel more confident about yourself.
Some people need more time to look back and reflect on their past relationship until they are ready to move on. Others need a distraction, like getting busy between the sheets. A night of sensual pleasure can help you move on, and begin a new chapter of your life.
It might not be the cure-all to your feelings about the breakup, but it will certainly take your mind off it!
Rope & Candy to the rescue
Among open-minded friends you can have better sex, better orgasms, and better company in a safe environment. It is one of the best ways to shed the heartbreak of a breakup.
Everything that happens among friends stays among friends.
So who doesn’t need this? Actually, there is never a bad reason to meet new people who think like you.
Sex is the highest choice to escape the pain you may be experiencing.
(By the way, as supporters of safe sex, we say it every time: use condoms.)
Can sex parties totally cure the breakup blues?
Probably not.
But it’s a good step towards helping you forget your troubles, and moving on with your life.
Whether you have just had a messy breakup or not, join Rope & Candy for free. Tell us where you spend your time, and we will meet you for a coffee or a dinner when we are near.